Blog posts by Caroline R. Paul, MD

Parent-to-Parent Peer Pressure

It’s a common scenario – the kids come home from school one day and start talking about something they want. Maybe it’s a new video game, a new phone, or to go on a trip to some far locale. And inevitably it includes the phrase, “but everyone else has one, and I’m the only one who doesn’t!” (or something similar).

As a parent it can be difficult – after all, we are all familiar with feeling left out. And perhaps we’re even a bit worried on how we’ll be judged by other parents. Social media can increase that pressure, too – pictures of seemingly perfect birthday parties with coordinating colors and cute themes; smiling family vacation photos from Disney World; presents overflowing from beneath the Christmas tree; endless photos of successful sports activities. It just doesn’t seem to end.

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What to Do When Kids Lie

What to do when kids lieMany of us remember our parents’ reaction when we were caught in a lie or remember when our children told us a lie.  It often comes as a shock to parents. The reality is that all children lie at some point. It’s a normal part of a development. As the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) explains, the act of lying demonstrates that their conscience is working. While it can be upsetting when kids lie or stretch the truth, the reasons they do so vary by age. And, how we react can make a big difference on their future behavior.

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Parenting and Grief

ss_273249536_sad_girl_teddybearI recently lost my father, whom I love so dearly and deeply.

It has only been a few months, but I feel that I can offer something in this blog to families as a mother, as a pediatrician, and as a daughter. If you are placed in this situation, it is important to understand that you cannot be the perfect parent/caregiver as you help your children. Even with perfect finesse, insight and resources, this process will still be difficult for your child.

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What Not to Buy at Garage Sales

Garage SaleSome people swear by garage and yard sales. They can certainly help stretch tight family budgets by being a great source for gently used baby and toddler items. But, there are important things to keep in mind when you’re considering that “good deal.”

One of the challenges, whether you are a buyer or a seller at a garage sale, is knowing the recall history of items. Unless you make a point of checking the Consumer Product Safety Commissions website (cpsc.gov), you may not be aware an item has been recalled. These items pose a life-threatening danger to infants and children so it is important not to take any chances.

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